Were you one of those people who discovered the pleasure of no clothing as a child?
I grew up as one of those latch key kids where there was nobody around to help you get ready for school and being there for you when after school. Get up and prepare for school from eating breakfast to making school lunch and getting myself off from the age of 9 or 10 years old. While this is not for most children, it was something which I preferred as I was never a child who liked most people. I preferred socialising with the pet dog and cat as well as the ants, trees and so on.
My typical after school routine was to come home, have a shower and an afternoon snack while watching the tv. Possibly do some homework, get myself dinner that was in the crockpot(slow cooker), watch tv shows like Benny Hill which I understood the context of then off to bed. It was on one particular day that my routine changed.
On one afternoon, I had my shower and felt too tired to get dressed so I rested on the lounge with my snack and watched tv minus any clothing. After my Warner Brother Cartoons or whatever it was I watched, I realised that I really enjoyed being naked so I opted for a swim in our pool to see if I liked doing that while naked too. In I went and I loved it. This very quickly became my after school routine.
My mother came home early one day to find me laying about naked and asked me if that was what I usually did so I explained everything to her as well as the swimming. From that time on, the only time I wore swimmers in the pool at home was if we had guests at my mother's request.
When I was in high school, I got a mate to try out skinny dipping. It took a little negotiation with him to try it out by saying that I would stay away from him to settle his fear of homosexual sex. Once he settled in and enjoyed it, he came over regularly to enjoy the benefits of swimming naked and being around the house naked fully knowing that nudity and sex did not always have to go together. He wasn't surprised when on Grade 9 camp which was an actual camp with tents that I walked through the camping ground naked and in the river for a swim. I did get in trouble but by the end of the day, 6 or so of us boys were all soaking in the river while our swimmers were in the bamboo reeds, unknown to the teachers.
When I was in my first year of high school, my mother did suggest going to a nudist resort for a holiday but I refused because I was paranoid that I would be walking around all those lovely females, new to my mind while sporting an uncontrolled erection. If only I knew better. LOL
Now I have a family which is a Clothing Optional household and the children love being allowed to choose if they are dressed or not. Only recently we allowed them to choose if they are dressed or not when we have visitors over who we know and trust.
The benefits for the children have been immense when we look at our 12 and 8 year olds, the eldest two, for they look at the rubbish pushed in the media and they shake their heads instead of feeling pressured to look like an air brushed model. They look at how those of their age at school respond to their bodies and see just how insecure these children, as young as 6 years old feel about their bodies. To feel shame at that age - just what has society done to our children. A commercialised society where even clothing for children as young as 2 if they're female, consists of sexy g-strings, high cut skirts that hugs the hips and more.
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